Be the man

Attraction is an amazing activity between man and woman. Our brain can not tell the difference between what is real and what is imaginary. If you truly believe in an idea and visualize strongly on this idea, you can create the outcome in no time. However, most of the time we live in a world when we concentrate on what we do not want rather than the real desires of our life.

Obviously, the subject is massive. If you want to read more about this subject, check out 'the secret' and 'law of attraction' books. I have really enjoyed reading them and benefit from them a lot. However, our subject is more specific when it comes to dating and that is how can I really 'be the man' I want to be?

Simple question and here is a very simple answer. Get a pen and notebook and start visualizing the characteristics man you want to be. Who is this person? James Bond? Brad Pitt? Hugh Grant... you name it. Now start writing things down about this character. How do they speak, how do they act, how do they react. Have you created a list?

Now here is the easy part. Test this list out in real life. Keep the characteristics you like and drop the ones you don't. Remember you are only trying to adopt ideas and good characteristics from these people not their lives. It is this simple. It will take some time to master it, but if you truly believe you are as cool as James Bond in your head. Life will create a world where this could come true for you one day. Just believe in yourself and let the universe do its work.