30 April 2008

Addicted to phone calls and text messages

When you are in a relationship, it all seems normal that you want to give your 100 percent. However, the receiving hand sometimes can not be in the same vibe and this creates major hiccups. In the beginning of your dating, you might be receiving 10 calls a day, countless small and sweet text messages and it makes you want to return the favor and start spending your life by a phone.

Apart from the obvious health problems mobile phones create, I really do not believe they add anything to your relationship. It raises THE BAR each time you send a reply to him or her. I mean there must be only a limited number of things you can really say in these small texts. I read and studied a lot about BODY LANGUAGE and the very first thing you learn in this topic is that it is not what you say that counts.

In a percentage, I believe only 10 percent of communication is about what we say and the rest of 90 percent is how we say it with our tone and body language. Tell me how are you going to achieve this with your phone?

Enough about the problem. So what to do when your partner keeps on sending these texts? I think the easiest option is not to rush too quickly in a response and be short with your response. In return what you will get is a committed partner who understands there is more to your life then messages him or her all day long. It might come across as a HARD reaction, but believe me you do not want your partner to think there is nothing else in your life

.Remember if something is not available, it is much more wanted and much more ATTRACTIVE.

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