29 March 2008

When she change the game play

Attraction is a very difficult thing to understand. When you first meet your partner, it all seems very magical that nothing can take her away from you and there is nothing to it, she likes you and you like her, all very magical.

Something great is missed out in this period of relationships and this is closing our eyes to what we are building in the first few weeks. If you become a man who is constantly on the phone sending text messages, calling your girlfriend and thinking about her 24/7, then there are very hard times waiting for you.

Do not go into this trap of giving up everything around you. You are still the same guy before you met this woman and as we have talked about this before she has been attracted to you because of who you were. So if you are going to try to please her with tons of calls and flowers, guess what she is going to do. Of course, she will lose her attraction to you and you will hear less and less from her in the process. The new game will be that she is going to search for a man who had those qualities you have lost.

We miss things in our life which don't come easy, so don't go changing your life. Make sure that she is part of your life, not all of it.

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