Addicted to phone calls and text messages

When you are in a relationship, it all seems normal that you want to give your 100 percent. However, the receiving hand sometimes can not be in the same vibe and this creates major hiccups. In the beginning of your dating, you might be receiving 10 calls a day, countless small and sweet text messages and it makes you want to return the favor and start spending your life by a phone.

Apart from the obvious health problems mobile phones create, I really do not believe they add anything to your relationship. It raises THE BAR each time you send a reply to him or her. I mean there must be only a limited number of things you can really say in these small texts. I read and studied a lot about BODY LANGUAGE and the very first thing you learn in this topic is that it is not what you say that counts.

In a percentage, I believe only 10 percent of communication is about what we say and the rest of 90 percent is how we say it with our tone and body language. Tell me how are you going to achieve this with your phone?

Enough about the problem. So what to do when your partner keeps on sending these texts? I think the easiest option is not to rush too quickly in a response and be short with your response. In return what you will get is a committed partner who understands there is more to your life then messages him or her all day long. It might come across as a HARD reaction, but believe me you do not want your partner to think there is nothing else in your life

.Remember if something is not available, it is much more wanted and much more ATTRACTIVE.

Be the man

Attraction is an amazing activity between man and woman. Our brain can not tell the difference between what is real and what is imaginary. If you truly believe in an idea and visualize strongly on this idea, you can create the outcome in no time. However, most of the time we live in a world when we concentrate on what we do not want rather than the real desires of our life.

Obviously, the subject is massive. If you want to read more about this subject, check out 'the secret' and 'law of attraction' books. I have really enjoyed reading them and benefit from them a lot. However, our subject is more specific when it comes to dating and that is how can I really 'be the man' I want to be?

Simple question and here is a very simple answer. Get a pen and notebook and start visualizing the characteristics man you want to be. Who is this person? James Bond? Brad Pitt? Hugh Grant... you name it. Now start writing things down about this character. How do they speak, how do they act, how do they react. Have you created a list?

Now here is the easy part. Test this list out in real life. Keep the characteristics you like and drop the ones you don't. Remember you are only trying to adopt ideas and good characteristics from these people not their lives. It is this simple. It will take some time to master it, but if you truly believe you are as cool as James Bond in your head. Life will create a world where this could come true for you one day. Just believe in yourself and let the universe do its work.